Better Is Now !!

Heylo , wassup guys❤️! I hope you are all doing well🌟

If you are a person who is thoughtful and wants to know about life in a deeper way . Buddy , this is for youu 🤜🏻! 

So , in order to being processed in rapid fire , we have left behind some Little moments, which you can refer as "khushi ke pal🤏🏻 " . 

We have read , heard or seen this slang "Live in The Moment, Live in The Moment" 🌈but can anybody explain me , like what it is all about? coz idk what this actually means . Well , does Live in the moment means staying in the present without thinking of past and future? or does it means just going with the flow ? or does it means I'm not gonna care about what's coming in the future , what has been in the past but I just do care that I have to enjoy my present to the fullest. Yess , I feel that Living in the moment means to become mindful of today😇 , to find a way to enjoy today🥳 . However , I want you to ask this question to yourself that Do really Little moments matter to you or you are just immersed in thinking of past and the future 🌝? I feel in the rushing generation, we tend to forget to enjoy the little moments of life and worry about future🤥. 

Ok so , you might have been thinking why I've been saying this word " little moments , little moments..." ! Ok so , One day I sat down , mind full of thoughts and realisations👀 , past nhi , present nhi , future nhi . Just into some deeper thoughts✍🏻 and this song - 🎼We're gettin' older baby 

Does it ever drive you crazy ,  

Just how fast the night changes ! 🎼

 was playing in my head💌 .

 I realised that I've come at that point where my life becomes meaningless📍. You want to know why ? Ok , okk ! Bta rhi hu . Because , we tend to sacrifice small little moments of our life during the  journey of our goal . We used to say " bus yaar , ye ho jayee phir life set hai uske baad maze hi maze  ! " But , we tend to forget that #DilMaangeMore💘 ! If we achieve one goal , then there's another goal in front of us.  So does that mean ki just bcoz of our bigger goals , hum chote chote khushi ke pal ko miss karenge ?! And , What if , you look back and end up regretting it ?🙊 

Ok , Let's get Back to ' How Fast the Nights changes '🥂 !

You know there was a time when we used to read champaks , storybooks😛 to us reading novels🤓 . A time where we used to listen to nani-dadi's stories😇 to us listening to podcasts👂🏻. A time where we used to get thrilled by full marks 🤪to us not getting enough satisfaction from what we have achieved😟 . A time where we always lying beside our parents💛 to us texting virtually with parents even they are at home🤳🏻 . A time where we actually go outside and play🏃🏻‍♀️ to us now getting addicted to online games 🎮. A time where we used to spend some quality time with our family💎 to us busy making new friends🐒.A time where we used to meet our friends and share a quality time 💃to us now meeting with our friends , do share our quality time but with phones in our hands📱. A time where we used to become crybaby in front of our parents over silly things🥴 to us now crying at night hiding anxiety issues from our parents🙂 . Don't you think we have evolved a lot and have left all these little moments behind ?👀

Bhaiii , Kehnaaa Kya Chahte Hooo ??

Simply , we should focus on our career , we should do all chores we have been doing but not letting that things affect our personal space 🤍. Otherwise, even after working too hard , you'll end up with dissatisfaction and resentment🙊.  We should go back to our time when we were kids , and start celebrating small achievements❤️. I know these little moments are subjective , so start exploring yourself and find kismein tumhe Khushi milti hai😇 ?! 

 

Toh , ab hum kar kya sakte hain ? 

• Firstly , we should prioritise things . Like what is important and what is not , keeping personal space in mind .

• Secondly , Try acquiring new skills daily . If not , then atleast stick what you are good at , that might help in your future . You never know ?! 

• Give time to your family , friends , close ones.  Talk to them . Never think ki bahut time hai ( we have already learnt this thing from covid) 

• Take breaks from your work/study and try to make your breaks a little productive.  

• Do what your dil says as I always say . Keep cherishing your journey and small achievements of your life !

Ok , so that was it for today 😇 ! I hope you enjoyed reading this 'Dive into Deeper With Ridz' ! Do tell me if you liked it . Take Care ! B-byee 🤠

From , 

A person who's trying to inculcate these things in her daily life , who's a normal person like you who's trying to add meaning to her life 💙🤍

P.s - don't judge , this was written in a single flow.  Thoda idhar udhar hogya ho toh maaf karein ! They were just my thoughts 🤍