Heyo lovely people 🌟! I know either you must have some connection with #pyaar or with me , that's why you are here😇. Let's welcome y'll on 'Dive Deeper with Ridz' Part 2✌🏻! I don't know whether I'm mature enough to talk about this but I feel as a teen , this problem needs to be addressed📍.
Ok , so Question Time👀!!!
• Dating is cool ! But Have you ever loved yourself ?
• Is it really love at first sight or just an attraction ?
Well , Bollywood Wale pyaar mein toh bahut taakat hoti hai and that too in reality❤️.
ye toh suna hi hoga :-
" Ishq , mohabbat aur pyaar insaan ko aavad karte hain ya barbaad karte hain " ! 💁🏻♀️
What do you think ? Aavad ya Barbaad ?
Ummm...it depends from person to person.
well , well !! I have a bigger question to ask ? OMG ! I promise😩, iske baad no more questions :-)
Ok , so Don't you think we have a lot of bigger things in life which needs to be addressed other than Aashiqui💃? oh , sorry , sorry ! PYAAR🙆🏻♀️ !
Don't you think love is overrated 💞?
well , I feel it is . People who are in relationship , if they are doing good , working on their dreams considering each other's personal space in mind . I'm all okay🤝🏻 !
( vse tab bhi mujhe koi fark nhi parta😂 , afterall , it's their choice🤥 )
Dekho ,
duniya mein 3 tarah ke log hote hain-
• pehle vo , jo relationship mein apne aapko grow karte hain🌟 !
• second vo , jinko apni priorities pata hoti hain jaise main🧘🏻♀️
• and lastly vo , jo iss generation mein aadhe log hain ( hopeless romantic )🙊 !
What about these hopeless romantic people who are in search of somebody , knowing nothing about unke ane wla kal , those who have no purpose in their lives rather than love. Don't you think they are in the wrong track 🙃? By the way , Now I think I'm on the wrong track🙄 ( baat toh attraction ki ho rhi thi na ) 😬 !
ok , so getting back to attraction🌝. If I ask you what is Attraction ( jo ki main nahi puchungi🙇🏻♀️) you might answer as Attraction is something when two persons vibe with each other blaa blaa ...🤜🏻
In my opinion, attraction is something when we assume the other person interesting🌈 and we want to know that person a little too much and see if things work out💡. It's obviously a connection but if from both the sides. I always wonder when I hear from people ( iski ye , uska ye , phir uski ye , voo blaa blaa 🥴) that ab yahi reh gaya hai🤖 ?
There's career infront of them💎, there are responsibilities💰 , family, friends too 🧁. There's whole life. Why are they getting distracted 👽? Why are they not in senses😵 ? Why are they trapped to the sweet things and fantasies of love 😟?
Aree , baba🙆🏻♀️ . I understand🤍 !!!
We can't control all these things. They are natural🧘🏻♀️. It's all okay💛. Teenage has nothing to do with it. It is pretty much that phase of our life when we have very little to no control over our feelings and emotions✨. However , having an attraction is not wrong👍🏻 , acting on it is wrong👎🏻 . you are experiencing something that all people experience💯.
I know all these things ( love - attraction ) are good and life is short🤖. I know we meet a lot of people during our journey who shape us💜 , inspire us🤍. It gives you the moments where you might grow into a better version of yourself 🧠, a better human where you might be encouraged to work on yourself more. 💪🏻 It's really all about the moments and small things that bring us joy🥳 but
Please don't let these things affect you or let you down !! Never Ever !!🤐
Toh ab hum kya karein🤷🏻♀️ ? Pyaar karna chhor de 🤫?
Nhi , baba💀 .
You can't do anything about it 🤷🏻♀️, but what you can practice is self control🤍 , which is obviously not easy💢 .
• Just try to prioritise your goals. You should know what is important for you 👥.
• Get busy ! Divert your minds from stuffs which distract you🤓 .
• Talk to yourself 🗣️! know yourself better , try to know what are your strengths and weaknesses🏌🏻♀️.
And ,
And ,
Always remember that true love waits 💌. There are a lot of people who are going to love you in this beautiful journey🌈. So , start loving yourself 🤍 and everything will start falling in place 🤜🏻
So , that was it for today😇 !
I hope you like this one 😀! I just expressed it in one go🙆🏻♀️ . I don't know whether I am able to deliver what I wanted to but ...phir b yaar , rocket science toh hai nhi 🤫!!
Also ,
P.s -To all the aashiques😁 , It was not meant to instruct somebody as this topic is subjective 🤓. It was just my opinion 🤍!
Take Care , B-bbyee 🤍
