Monday, May 30, 2022

A Dilemma

Post everything that's happening I'm quite happy about it 😇. So today let's talk about a Dilemma which we a face after our 10th boards i.e stream selection🤷🏻‍♀️.  Most of us also have had our opinions before 10th that what they wanted to do , but in my case , I would be lying if I say I hadn't taken any decision🤐 . A big Yes if you ask me if I have opted for science ( medical )🤓 but if I need to be more precise👀 , then yeah , I was opting arts🌟 . So basically when my 10th preboards were going on , I was kinda researching💻 about my stream selection and taking advices from genuine people❤️. One thing that was very clear for me that I'm not gonna opt maths further in my life😵.  Most of the people told me that maths is important ✅, blaa blaaa. But he had done so worse in my life that I had in my mind that he can't betray me anymore📍. Also , aisa nhi hai maths ke saath meri koi rivalry hai👓...I love him❤️ , but he doesn't love me back👎🏻 ! Just one-sided love and y'all know it hurts💔 . So most of my options were already cut✍🏻 . I was just left with Arts and Pcb💃 . This was my major dilemma which I have ever faced in my life🐸. I was completely blank😶. My dad wanted me to opt arts 🖌️. He justified his opinion by saying " Arts toh easy peasy hai . You're creative so you'll get time for other things also . Also , life is about enjoying little things in life , medical mein pure din padhtii rahogi.💡" Infact , not my dad , but my brothers , friends , they also encouraged me to opt Arts ( where basically my interest lies💌 ) but I was kinda not agreeing with them . Idk why ! Maybe I had in my mind " lena hai toh science hi hai , chaahe kuch bhi ho jaaye🕺🏻 " but I needed to think because after all , Life ka sawaal hai , Boss🤷🏻‍♀️ ! Also , a correct decision requires a lot of thinking and investigation of alternatives 🤍. As we are rushing deeper into this century , we are leaving this old notion of how streams should be chosen based not only on marks💯 . But , you know what my mom said . She encouraged me for opting science ( yeah , yeah medical )🌟 She further said " if you wanna it , then just go for it . Mehnat karo.  Whether you'll be pursuing medical after 12th or not , doesn't matter but if you think this is right for you , go ahead ."💜 I can't describe what I was feeling at that time.  Everyone was kinda right 👉🏻👈🏻. 
Now , it was time for me think a little bit🤏🏻. It was time for me to talk to myself a little bit 🗣️. It was time for me to realise where my potential lies🦸🏻‍♀️ . It was time for me to listen to my heart💗 . And , wanna know what my dil said💛 " Go for science , go for something challenging . Life should not be just a bed of roses🥀.  Thorns are also part of it and should be accepted by us just as we accept the beautiful side of life 🌈. Go for science not because career set ho jayega n all , go for science because it broadens your knowledge , go for science because it creates a practical approach towards life✨ . I had decided that I'm gonna be opting science , whether I'll be preparing for NEET or not , doesn't matter but lena Boss science hi haii ! 🐸
Also , there is one more merit of choosing science is that it acts as an upper hand.  If I ever lose interest in science , then I can easily shift to arts and commerce.🏷️ 
So , that was kinda my story , my dilemma which every student face during or after their 10th boards🧿 . 

Furthermore , as we say every action has an impact. Choose wisely the impact you wanna have ! Life is about taking the right steps to gain what you want . Asking yourself in general , works well because it makes you think.  And , one thing you neet to remember that ONLY you know what's the best for you , ONLY you know your capabilities👨🏻‍💻 , your weaknesses🙇🏻‍♀️ , your strength💪🏻.

Do I Regret Doing This ? 
Well , a Big No ! Honestly, there are times when I feel low , when I feel giving up , when I used to doubt my decision . But all in all , I'm enjoying this beautiful Journey☃️ . Anyways , life is a journey to be savoured☔ . If you fall in love with the Journey , you'll be in love forever filled with unexpected miracles☄️ . 

P.s - this was not meant to instruct somebody . It was my story , my experience. 


Take Care💗 , b-byee ! 
You can also connect me on instagram - @_ridzeal_

Get To Know Me 🤍

Oh , Heyy ! You know it's been a long day👀 . Just woke up with a headache 🤕 No , noo , not that headache...I have just piled up all my work and just thinking of some way or the other of completing it 🤷🏻‍♀️ . Oh God , buddhu me 🤦🏻‍♀️ you don't even know to whom you are listening to 😬 Ok , So I'm Ridhi ❤️ ummm...but formal , ryt ? You can call me ' Ridz '  💎 ! I'm a 16 yr old wierdo . Yeaah , you read that right 🤓 ! I'm a kinda weirdo who has hell lotta interests as my ig bio says " my mind exhibits the million things it does " 🤍

I'm a person who's self motivated 🌝 , who is positive about every aspect of life ✨ I love to dance 💃 , I love to sing🎙️ ( sometimes 😂 ) I love to travel🧗🏻‍♀️ .I love to do artistic stuff 🌈 I love to read 📖. I like to think , I like to talk , I like to dream , I like to see the sunrise in the morning ☀️ , I like to look at the clouds with a blank mind ☁️, I like to surrounded by people 😺, I like the nature🌿. I love to do each and every thing which excites me🌻 . People call me creative too 🤔 and I also find it true ( ok , ok somewhat ) 🙂 Most importantly , I love myself⭐ . I just love what I do . I love being perfectly imperfect🕊️. I love exploring things in the digital world just like what I'm doing right now - writing blogs ✍🏻! 


While writing, I just feel extra grateful😇 . From a little girl , who had no idea about life🙄 , to facing a hell lot of ups and downs 🤞🏻, fighting them hard and flying back again ☀️. In the process growing up , I realised Life is Beautiful 🐸! I think this girl has come a long way🥂 . 

So you wanna know about my favourite colour💛 ?Or you are here to hear my daily nonsense🙊. What should I put here 👀? Maybe , my daily nonsense might work😉 . 

Ok , meet you later 🖖🏻! 
For now , do what you're doin🕺🏻 , Love what you're doin❤️ ! 
That's more than enough for your one step closer to success :-) 
B-byee 🤠



You can also connect me on ig💗 - @_ridzeal_

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