True Calling !!

Oh Heyy ! 👋🏻

Long time - no see !! 👀

Well , how are you doing ? 😃

Fine ! 🙃

Just fine ? 🤫

Yeah man ! I can't seem to figure out what I want to do in my life. everything seems meaningless. I'm not able to find my passion or field of interest. Am I too late ? 😞

Arrey , that's okay ! 😄

well , it seems aaj ka philosophical gyaan shuru hi karna parega. 🤔

toh kahani shuru karein ? 💁🏻‍♀️

so today I'm gonna talk about True calling🌟 . 

True calling ? really Ridhi ? it must be Truecaller . Omgg companies ke itne calls aate hainn😬 !!! 

oh buddhuu 🤦🏻‍♀️! noo , it's true calling not your stupid Truecaller🤥. 

Ok , listen to me🤍 . 

true calling is like finding your soulmate or falling in love with someone❤️. 

ab sapne dekhna band karoo !! I'm not talking about what you're thinking , okay ? 🙆🏻‍♀️

 True calling is like finding your passion , finding your sole purpose . It's like that one thing that makes you feel alive✨. 

for me , true calling is like Serendipity🌈.

really ? now what is Serendipity dude ? 🤷🏻‍♀️

it's like when life throws you to a totally unexpected and awesome surprise party🍭. It's like making fortunate discoveries by accident🚧. 

ok !!! 😯

So my journey of true calling started in 11th standard only . Now since you know I took medical in my 11th standard 🌟. 

( if you don't know , yaar mere baaki ke blogs kaun padhega ) 😔

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Ok , I was too much engrossed in studies to become a doctor convinced that the medical field is for me . However , I soon realised that wasn't the case 🙂  .

Aisa ni ki efforts mein kami thi . I still remember that time when I would wake up at 4am , and ishh those bio - physics - chem ke notes💌 ! but despite my dedication , I couldn't help but question whether I was truly cut out for the competition because there are a lot of people who are genuinely passionate about it . Do I really possess that same passion ? I'm sure you have had similar thoughts as well🧠. 

Since it was covid time , I used to study but that mere focus or concentration wasn't there . 

Instead , I ended up diving into art🖌️ , hanging out with my people 💃 , unleashing my creative side🧿 and doing some silly stuff that I never thought I'd do , trust me ! 😕

it was like a transformation🧘🏻‍♀️😵. 

One day out of the blue , I was talking to a friend about different career options and you know ? then she told me about design field. I was really clueless about it despite so immersed in it's pursuits. I mean , who knew such a thing even existed ?🙆🏻‍♀️

I felt like a switch that had been flipped inside me🌀 .

That whole day - night , I kept researching about the colleges , entrance exam , different fields within design and all that jazz🌬️ .  

I was really convinced that this was it . I mean I can't describe that feeling. it was like finding a treasure🏆. 

However , it takes a lot of courage to move out from a well settled career to something that few people are familiar with 🕶️.  

I kept my research mode on but didn't disclose anybody till I was fully convinced💡. After few months maybe beginning of my 12th grade , I mustered up the courage and told my parents about my aspirations and surprisingly they told me that they knew it was coming because you were actually becoming what you're not. They were really happy because I was happy but at the same time , there was a dilemma ki ye ladki kar kya kar rhi hai ?🦥😨

Because to be honest , I've never been focused in my life. I thrive on exploring new things and jo dil kehta hai kar leti hu❤️ . 

But I knew what I wanted to do👤 . 

took coaching for entrance exams , simultaneously studied for boards . There were days , I used to doubt myself🙊 . Am I really doing right because everyone seemed to be fixated on becoming doctors or engineers but that hustle only fueled my determination further🔥. 

So , in the month of Jan - Feb , I gave my entrance exams. It went really well🤠. 

right now , I couldn't be happier that I'll be pursuing a career in design🌞. 

to be honest , I don't know if there will be a true calling part 2 or maybe someday I discover an even greater passion😀. But one thing I do know for sure is that I'm happy🤗. I'm happy exploring 🏄, finding inspiration in each and everything🌻 and embracing my creativity🌈. 

meri kahani toh khatam ! 💛

All I want to say is I don't know what interests you , what makes you happy but when ..🤐

Arreyy baba , I know what makes me happy 😛.

what ? 🙄

Laying on bed , overthinking , and scrolling reels🤑. 

What rubbish man ! Turn this aalas into a productive thing 🤨. 

Just explore things !!! Just go explore !!!🏌️

Try out different things ! you like to paint ? just paint🎨 ! you like to cook ? just cook🍩 ! 

We live in this generation where gaming ya har cheez can actually turn into a career🛣️. It isn't that a particular field lacks career opportunities. It's all about channelizing the passion in the right way☀️. And if that thing makes you happy , and you focus on it , it will make your life fulfilling even if it's difficult or doesn't bring you to a lot of money or notoriety🌠 .

Also , I understand there are a lot of things which keeps us away from finding our passion . Our daily responsibilities , our routine leaves us with little free time to explore new things but remember being your best self however will help you give more to the people you care about💞

Trust me it's never too late🤍 . The most important thing is that you take the first step 🤏🏻. Yes , It could be a road full of challenges that will make you think you should give up 💪🏻. But hold on ! your true calling will lead you to bigger and better things 🎁. When you're following your true calling , you're bringing your unique gifts to the table📍. 

So just embrace the process and move through it with peace and joy💛 !! 

 Keep your eyes open👀 and stay curious 🤓and make you life one heck of an epic adventure🪂.

Take care , B-byee !! 💗

 

Pyaariority

Heyo lovely people 🌟! I know either you must have some connection with #pyaar or with me , that's why you are here😇. Let's welcome y'll on 'Dive Deeper with Ridz' Part 2✌🏻! I don't know whether I'm mature enough to talk about this but I feel as a teen , this problem needs to be addressed📍. 

Ok , so Question Time👀!!! 

• Dating is cool ! But Have you ever loved yourself ? 

• Is it really love at first sight or just an attraction ? 

Well , Bollywood Wale pyaar mein toh bahut taakat hoti hai and that too in reality❤️. 

ye toh suna hi hoga :- 

" Ishq , mohabbat aur pyaar insaan ko aavad karte hain ya barbaad karte hain " ! 💁🏻‍♀️

What do you think ? Aavad ya Barbaad ? 

Ummm...it depends from person to person. 

well , well !! I have a bigger question to ask ? OMG ! I promise😩, iske baad no more questions :-) 

Ok , so Don't you think we have a lot of bigger things in life which needs to be addressed other than Aashiqui💃? oh , sorry , sorry ! PYAAR🙆🏻‍♀️ ! 

Don't you think love is overrated 💞? 

well , I feel it is . People who are in relationship , if they are doing good , working on their dreams considering each other's personal space in mind . I'm all okay🤝🏻 ! 

( vse tab bhi mujhe koi fark nhi parta😂 , afterall , it's their choice🤥 ) 

Dekho , 

duniya mein 3 tarah ke log hote hain- 

• pehle vo , jo relationship mein apne aapko grow karte hain🌟 !

• second vo , jinko apni priorities pata hoti hain jaise main🧘🏻‍♀️

• and lastly vo , jo iss generation mein aadhe log hain ( hopeless romantic )🙊 ! 

 What about these hopeless romantic people who are in search of somebody , knowing nothing about unke ane wla kal , those who have no purpose in their lives rather than love. Don't you think they are in the wrong track 🙃? By the way , Now I think I'm on the wrong track🙄 ( baat toh attraction ki ho rhi thi na ) 😬 ! 

ok , so getting back to attraction🌝. If I ask you what is Attraction ( jo ki main nahi puchungi🙇🏻‍♀️) you might answer as Attraction is something when two persons vibe with each other blaa blaa ...🤜🏻

In my opinion, attraction is something when we assume the other person interesting🌈 and we want to know that person a little too much and see if things work out💡. It's obviously a connection but if from both the sides. I always wonder when I hear from people ( iski ye , uska ye , phir uski ye , voo blaa blaa 🥴) that ab yahi reh gaya hai🤖 ?

 There's career infront of them💎, there are responsibilities💰 , family, friends too 🧁. There's whole life. Why are they getting distracted 👽? Why are they not in senses😵 ? Why are they trapped to the sweet things and fantasies of love 😟? 

Aree , baba🙆🏻‍♀️ . I understand🤍 !!! 

We can't control all these things. They are natural🧘🏻‍♀️. It's all okay💛.  Teenage has nothing to do with it.  It is pretty much that phase of our life when we have very little to no control over our feelings and emotions✨. However , having an attraction is not wrong👍🏻 , acting on it is wrong👎🏻 . you are experiencing something that all people experience💯. 

I know all these things ( love - attraction ) are good and life is short🤖. I know we meet a lot of people during our journey who shape us💜 , inspire us🤍. It gives you the moments where you might grow into a better version of yourself 🧠, a better human where you might be encouraged to work on yourself more. 💪🏻 It's really all about the moments and small things that bring us joy🥳 but 

Please don't let these things affect you or let you down !!  Never Ever !!🤐

Toh ab hum kya karein🤷🏻‍♀️ ? Pyaar karna chhor de 🤫? 

Nhi , baba💀 . 

You can't do anything about it 🤷🏻‍♀️, but what you can practice is self control🤍 , which is obviously not easy💢 .

• Just try to prioritise your goals. You should know what is important for you 👥. 

• Get busy ! Divert your minds from stuffs which distract you🤓 . 

• Talk to yourself 🗣️! know yourself better , try to know what are your strengths and weaknesses🏌🏻‍♀️.

And , 

And ,

Always remember that true love waits 💌. There are a lot of people who are going to love you in this beautiful journey🌈. So , start loving yourself 🤍 and everything will start falling in place 🤜🏻

So , that was it for today😇 ! 

I hope you like this one 😀! I just expressed it in one go🙆🏻‍♀️ . I don't know whether I am able to deliver what I wanted to but ...phir b yaar , rocket science toh hai nhi 🤫!! 

Also , 

P.s -To all the aashiques😁 , It was not meant to instruct somebody as this topic is subjective 🤓. It was just my opinion 🤍! 

Take Care , B-bbyee 🤍

Better Is Now !!

Heylo , wassup guys❤️! I hope you are all doing well🌟

If you are a person who is thoughtful and wants to know about life in a deeper way . Buddy , this is for youu 🤜🏻! 

So , in order to being processed in rapid fire , we have left behind some Little moments, which you can refer as "khushi ke pal🤏🏻 " . 

We have read , heard or seen this slang "Live in The Moment, Live in The Moment" 🌈but can anybody explain me , like what it is all about? coz idk what this actually means . Well , does Live in the moment means staying in the present without thinking of past and future? or does it means just going with the flow ? or does it means I'm not gonna care about what's coming in the future , what has been in the past but I just do care that I have to enjoy my present to the fullest. Yess , I feel that Living in the moment means to become mindful of today😇 , to find a way to enjoy today🥳 . However , I want you to ask this question to yourself that Do really Little moments matter to you or you are just immersed in thinking of past and the future 🌝? I feel in the rushing generation, we tend to forget to enjoy the little moments of life and worry about future🤥. 

Ok so , you might have been thinking why I've been saying this word " little moments , little moments..." ! Ok so , One day I sat down , mind full of thoughts and realisations👀 , past nhi , present nhi , future nhi . Just into some deeper thoughts✍🏻 and this song - 🎼We're gettin' older baby 

Does it ever drive you crazy ,  

Just how fast the night changes ! 🎼

 was playing in my head💌 .

 I realised that I've come at that point where my life becomes meaningless📍. You want to know why ? Ok , okk ! Bta rhi hu . Because , we tend to sacrifice small little moments of our life during the  journey of our goal . We used to say " bus yaar , ye ho jayee phir life set hai uske baad maze hi maze  ! " But , we tend to forget that #DilMaangeMore💘 ! If we achieve one goal , then there's another goal in front of us.  So does that mean ki just bcoz of our bigger goals , hum chote chote khushi ke pal ko miss karenge ?! And , What if , you look back and end up regretting it ?🙊 

Ok , Let's get Back to ' How Fast the Nights changes '🥂 !

You know there was a time when we used to read champaks , storybooks😛 to us reading novels🤓 . A time where we used to listen to nani-dadi's stories😇 to us listening to podcasts👂🏻. A time where we used to get thrilled by full marks 🤪to us not getting enough satisfaction from what we have achieved😟 . A time where we always lying beside our parents💛 to us texting virtually with parents even they are at home🤳🏻 . A time where we actually go outside and play🏃🏻‍♀️ to us now getting addicted to online games 🎮. A time where we used to spend some quality time with our family💎 to us busy making new friends🐒.A time where we used to meet our friends and share a quality time 💃to us now meeting with our friends , do share our quality time but with phones in our hands📱. A time where we used to become crybaby in front of our parents over silly things🥴 to us now crying at night hiding anxiety issues from our parents🙂 . Don't you think we have evolved a lot and have left all these little moments behind ?👀

Bhaiii , Kehnaaa Kya Chahte Hooo ??

Simply , we should focus on our career , we should do all chores we have been doing but not letting that things affect our personal space 🤍. Otherwise, even after working too hard , you'll end up with dissatisfaction and resentment🙊.  We should go back to our time when we were kids , and start celebrating small achievements❤️. I know these little moments are subjective , so start exploring yourself and find kismein tumhe Khushi milti hai😇 ?! 

 

Toh , ab hum kar kya sakte hain ? 

• Firstly , we should prioritise things . Like what is important and what is not , keeping personal space in mind .

• Secondly , Try acquiring new skills daily . If not , then atleast stick what you are good at , that might help in your future . You never know ?! 

• Give time to your family , friends , close ones.  Talk to them . Never think ki bahut time hai ( we have already learnt this thing from covid) 

• Take breaks from your work/study and try to make your breaks a little productive.  

• Do what your dil says as I always say . Keep cherishing your journey and small achievements of your life !

Ok , so that was it for today 😇 ! I hope you enjoyed reading this 'Dive into Deeper With Ridz' ! Do tell me if you liked it . Take Care ! B-byee 🤠

From , 

A person who's trying to inculcate these things in her daily life , who's a normal person like you who's trying to add meaning to her life 💙🤍

P.s - don't judge , this was written in a single flow.  Thoda idhar udhar hogya ho toh maaf karein ! They were just my thoughts 🤍

A Dilemma

Post everything that's happening I'm quite happy about it 😇. So today let's talk about a Dilemma which we a face after our 10th boards i.e stream selection🤷🏻‍♀️.  Most of us also have had our opinions before 10th that what they wanted to do , but in my case , I would be lying if I say I hadn't taken any decision🤐 . A big Yes if you ask me if I have opted for science ( medical )🤓 but if I need to be more precise👀 , then yeah , I was opting arts🌟 . So basically when my 10th preboards were going on , I was kinda researching💻 about my stream selection and taking advices from genuine people❤️. One thing that was very clear for me that I'm not gonna opt maths further in my life😵.  Most of the people told me that maths is important ✅, blaa blaaa. But he had done so worse in my life that I had in my mind that he can't betray me anymore📍. Also , aisa nhi hai maths ke saath meri koi rivalry hai👓...I love him❤️ , but he doesn't love me back👎🏻 ! Just one-sided love and y'all know it hurts💔 . So most of my options were already cut✍🏻 . I was just left with Arts and Pcb💃 . This was my major dilemma which I have ever faced in my life🐸. I was completely blank😶. My dad wanted me to opt arts 🖌️. He justified his opinion by saying " Arts toh easy peasy hai . You're creative so you'll get time for other things also . Also , life is about enjoying little things in life , medical mein pure din padhtii rahogi.💡" Infact , not my dad , but my brothers , friends , they also encouraged me to opt Arts ( where basically my interest lies💌 ) but I was kinda not agreeing with them . Idk why ! Maybe I had in my mind " lena hai toh science hi hai , chaahe kuch bhi ho jaaye🕺🏻 " but I needed to think because after all , Life ka sawaal hai , Boss🤷🏻‍♀️ ! Also , a correct decision requires a lot of thinking and investigation of alternatives 🤍. As we are rushing deeper into this century , we are leaving this old notion of how streams should be chosen based not only on marks💯 . But , you know what my mom said . She encouraged me for opting science ( yeah , yeah medical )🌟 She further said " if you wanna it , then just go for it . Mehnat karo.  Whether you'll be pursuing medical after 12th or not , doesn't matter but if you think this is right for you , go ahead ."💜 I can't describe what I was feeling at that time.  Everyone was kinda right 👉🏻👈🏻. 

Now , it was time for me think a little bit🤏🏻. It was time for me to talk to myself a little bit 🗣️. It was time for me to realise where my potential lies🦸🏻‍♀️ . It was time for me to listen to my heart💗 . And , wanna know what my dil said💛 " Go for science , go for something challenging . Life should not be just a bed of roses🥀.  Thorns are also part of it and should be accepted by us just as we accept the beautiful side of life 🌈. Go for science not because career set ho jayega n all , go for science because it broadens your knowledge , go for science because it creates a practical approach towards life✨ . I had decided that I'm gonna be opting science , whether I'll be preparing for NEET or not , doesn't matter but lena Boss science hi haii ! 🐸

Also , there is one more merit of choosing science is that it acts as an upper hand.  If I ever lose interest in science , then I can easily shift to arts and commerce.🏷️ 

So , that was kinda my story , my dilemma which every student face during or after their 10th boards🧿 . 

Furthermore , as we say every action has an impact. Choose wisely the impact you wanna have ! Life is about taking the right steps to gain what you want . Asking yourself in general , works well because it makes you think.  And , one thing you neet to remember that ONLY you know what's the best for you , ONLY you know your capabilities👨🏻‍💻 , your weaknesses🙇🏻‍♀️ , your strength💪🏻.

Do I Regret Doing This ? 

Well , a Big No ! Honestly, there are times when I feel low , when I feel giving up , when I used to doubt my decision . But all in all , I'm enjoying this beautiful Journey☃️ . Anyways , life is a journey to be savoured☔ . If you fall in love with the Journey , you'll be in love forever filled with unexpected miracles☄️ . 

P.s - this was not meant to instruct somebody . It was my story , my experience. 

Take Care💗 , b-byee ! 

You can also connect me on instagram - @_ridzeal_

Get To Know Me 🤍

Oh , Heyy ! You know it's been a long day👀 . Just woke up with a headache 🤕 No , noo , not that headache...I have just piled up all my work and just thinking of some way or the other of completing it 🤷🏻‍♀️ . Oh God , buddhu me 🤦🏻‍♀️ you don't even know to whom you are listening to 😬 Ok , So I'm Ridhi ❤️ ummm...but formal , ryt ? You can call me ' Ridz '  💎 ! I'm a 16 yr old wierdo . Yeaah , you read that right 🤓 ! I'm a kinda weirdo who has hell lotta interests as my ig bio says " my mind exhibits the million things it does " 🤍

I'm a person who's self motivated 🌝 , who is positive about every aspect of life ✨ I love to dance 💃 , I love to sing🎙️ ( sometimes 😂 ) I love to travel🧗🏻‍♀️ .I love to do artistic stuff 🌈 I love to read 📖. I like to think , I like to talk , I like to dream , I like to see the sunrise in the morning ☀️ , I like to look at the clouds with a blank mind ☁️, I like to surrounded by people 😺, I like the nature🌿. I love to do each and every thing which excites me🌻 . People call me creative too 🤔 and I also find it true ( ok , ok somewhat ) 🙂 Most importantly , I love myself⭐ . I just love what I do . I love being perfectly imperfect🕊️. I love exploring things in the digital world just like what I'm doing right now - writing blogs ✍🏻! 

While writing, I just feel extra grateful😇 . From a little girl , who had no idea about life🙄 , to facing a hell lot of ups and downs 🤞🏻, fighting them hard and flying back again ☀️. In the process growing up , I realised Life is Beautiful 🐸! I think this girl has come a long way🥂 . 

So you wanna know about my favourite colour💛 ?Or you are here to hear my daily nonsense🙊. What should I put here 👀? Maybe , my daily nonsense might work😉 . 

Ok , meet you later 🖖🏻! 

For now , do what you're doin🕺🏻 , Love what you're doin❤️ ! 

That's more than enough for your one step closer to success :-) 

B-byee 🤠

You can also connect me on ig💗 - @_ridzeal_